45 Things To Do When You’re Single on Valentine’s Day

Hold on to your heart-shaped hats, single friends, because Valentine’s Day is about to get a whole lot more fun! If the thought of roses and chocolates makes you roll your eyes, fear not – this blog post is here to spice things up. Get ready to laugh, love yourself silly, and discover why being single on Valentine’s Day might just be the best thing that ever happened to you. Here are 45 fantastic ideas for singles to make the most out of Valentine’s Day without a significant other.

Ban the Boy Talk

First things first, we will be shifting our focus from the boys to ourselves. No more boy talk, even if he is the hottest hunk you’ve ever seen! And I mean it!

1. This is your sign to go ahead and make plans. I’m sure all of the stores are painted pink and red with hearts and candy in their designated aisles. Let that be a reminder that you need to make plans; whether you plan on being solo-dolo or with friends. Make some plans.
2. Create a cozy movie night for yourself, complete with all your favorite snacks. Choose a lineup of films that make you laugh, cry, or inspire you. Chick-flick it up!
3. Treat yourself to a spa day at home. Take a long bath, do a face mask, and relax.
4. Take a moment to reflect on your journey, your achievements, and the person you’ve become. Write a heartfelt love letter to yourself, expressing gratitude for the strength, resilience, and beauty within. Acknowledge your successes and the challenges you’ve overcome. This exercise is a powerful way to boost your self-esteem and reinforce the love you have for the incredible person you are.
5. Get your Chef Ramsey on and experiment in the kitchen with a new recipe or bake your favorite treats.
6. Join an online event or webinar related to a hobby or interest you have.
7. Express your love and gratitude to friends and family by writing heartfelt letters.
8. Connect with friends through online games or board games over video chat.
9. Spend the day appreciating art and culture at a local museum or gallery.
10. Add a new perfume to your collection.
11. Spend the day appreciating art and culture at a local museum or gallery.
12. Go on a date with your bestie. Wear your little black or red dress, put on a bit of makeup, go to a restaurant, and enjoy food with wine, of course.
13. Have you always wanted to try Pilates?  Sign up for a one-day class to see if you’d enjoy it. Maybe, just maybe it’ll turn out to be just the hobby you needed.
14. You know that book that’s been sitting on the shelve collecting dust? Yeah, that one! Crack it open. It’s the perfect time to read a new book.
15. Be a tourist in your own city and visit places you haven’t been to before.
16. Take an online course to learn a new skill or hobby.
17. Pack a delicious lunch and head to a local park for a solo or group picnic. Too cold where you live? No problem. Find a cute little café and have a great outing!
18. Give back to the community by volunteering at a local charity or organization.
19. Capture the beauty of your surroundings with a photography adventure.
20. Share a good laugh and go to a live comedy show.
21. Go on a weekend getaway to a nearby city.
22. If you haven’t already created your vision board for the year, this is the perfect time to do it.
23. Enjoy the night sky by going stargazing at a quiet and serene location.
24. You know those super sexy dance classes with the heels? Take a class!!! You will feel like “THAT GIRL”!
25. Reflect on your thoughts and experiences by starting a journal.
26. Surround yourself with nature’s beauty at a local botanical garden.
27. Explore a neighboring town or city for a change of scenery.
28. Connect with like-minded individuals through local meetup groups. You should be able to find local girl meetups for Valentine’s Day!
29. Curate a playlist of your favorite songs or discover new music.
30. Go to your nearest grocery store or florist and buy yourself a bouquet of your favorite flowers.
31. Dive into a romantic novel or explore love poetry for a cozy night in.
32. Enhance your culinary skills with an online cooking class.
33. Host a sophisticated evening of wine tasting.
34. Create a list of self-love affirmations and repeat them throughout the day.
35. Spend time with God. Open up that bible.
36. Compile a scrapbook featuring your favorite memories and moments of love.
37. Reflect on personal growth by writing a letter to your past self.
38. Grab your single friends and find the closest karaoke joint. Sing your little hearts out!
39. Pen a letter to your future romantic partner, expressing your hopes.
40. Host a Valentine’s Day brunch with the women of your family!
41. Create a list of all the things you are grateful for!
42. Host an adult sleepover with all your closest girlfriends.
43. Do something nice for yourself. Go to the spa, get a facial, or massage.
44. Gift yourself something nice.
45. Say, “The love that I desire starts with me loving myself. The person who is sent to love me will realize my worth”!

Valentine’s Day is an opportunity to celebrate love in all its forms, including self-love and the love of friends and family. Embrace your solo status this Valentine’s Day and make it a day filled with joy, laughter, and memorable experiences. Whether you choose to indulge in pampering activities, explore new hobbies, or connect with friends, remember that love comes in many shapes and sizes. Enjoy the day, celebrate yourself, and relish the freedom to make it your own!